by Ben Wright
(Derby, UK)
1) Ask what future they would want to provide for (names of kids and partner) when they die or become critically ill. Shut up and let them speak. Guide them to talk about kind of Xmas's, holidays, education etc. Would they want partner to have to re-marry to fund lifestyle? Would they want 'latch-key' kids who don't have 'traditional' parenting as having to work to make ends meet?